I, Monster – The Sequel (Me, Again)

THE KILLOUGH CHRONICLES

by James Killough

In light of certain recent spectacular celebrity re-falls, I thought I would waffle on again about narcissism.  I’m saying ‘re-fall,’ but what is the opposite of a comeback, anyway?  Can’t be a go-forward, sounds too positive.  ‘Relapse’ presumes some sort of addiction or cancer or some other pathological illness, but I guess in the case of Donald Trump it has indeed been a relapse.  In terms of how beleaguered he is in the pubic eye, what has happened in the past week is akin to his bankruptcy twenty years ago.  Except this time the banking crooks on Wall Street won’t step in to refinance his image and allow him another comeback.  No doubt he’ll engineer that himself: much as we would like him put out to pasture, I fear the old warhorse unfortunately has some irksome neighing yet to do.

Let me recap where we are with this for readers who were not around during the week I spanked Galliano and then followed it up with a post about narcissism, and who might fear having to wade back and read through reams of dense, convoluted Killough prose:

A couple of years ago, when the recession was gearing up to kick me in the nuts, and creditors were blowing their horns with such force that the walls of my own private Jericho were crumbling around me, I was searching for a reason for it all.  I had been raised to believe that everything that happened to me was somehow my fault, so the collapse of the global economy had to be a butterfly effect caused by some major personality flaw of mine.  I decided that had to be Narcissism Personality Disorder (NPD), so I went on this quest to make the diagnosis fit.  I didn’t get very far because nobody in my world would back me up on it.  I might be ‘crazy, in a good way,’ but it would appear I don’t have a personality disorder, which is somehow disappointing; I have nothing to blame my misfortunes on.  The reason for my troubles was disappointingly pedestrian: I was just shit out of luck.

The final blow to my hypochondria came when a psychologist friend in London stated simply: “You’re not a narcissist, darling.  You’re just an American.”

It would seem that there is a disorder for everything these days, but that isn’t really the case.  The majority of people aren’t mentally ill, and depression and anxiety don’t really count as disorders, they’re more mental misdemeanors, cerebral jaywalking tickets.  The goal posts keep being moved by the doctors who compile the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, actions which may seem to invalidate psychiatry as a whole, but all fields of science are continually refined and updated.  True, there are slews of misdiagnoses, but that is because psychiatrists are like the proverbial blind men trying to describe an elephant just by touching parts of it; there are no sonograms or blood tests for the mind.  Also, a crazy person’s character is as changeable as anyone else’s, which makes trying to grasp what is in his head all the more slippery.

“Stop pretending you’re thirsty all the time. I didn’t mean what I said about your nostrils being uneven. You look FINE! Sheesh.”

The reason it was important for me to understand what narcissism truly means is NPD should not be confused with vanity and a healthy amount of self-confidence.  I am definitely vain, deeply eccentric, and I do have preternaturally high levels of self-confidence, or I do when I’m not screwed up in a ball in the corner of my mind beating myself needlessly like Joan Crawford whaling on Christina over a silly wire hanger.

For the exact symptoms of NPD, I refer you here.  If not, just take me at my word: at the core of NPD is delusion.  Delusions of grandeur, particularly.  Remember those old cliché images of asylum inmates who thought they were Christ or Napoleon?  That’s NPD, probably laced with a hefty dollop of schizophrenia.

When we watch The Celebrity Apprentice, which President Lazarus Obama referenced in his White House Trump Nuclear Roast, we focus on Gary Busey’s manifest insanity, while Trump himself seems to be the voice of reason and corporate managerial sageness. But in reality Busey and Trump are cut from the same cloth, it’s just that Busey’s NPD probably has some double major with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), which is why he appears so much more nutso than Trump.  Actually, my quasi-educated guess is Busey has a major in BPD with a minor in NPD, a common combo.  Trump is just pure, text book NPD.

I haven’t watched many episodes of Celebrity Apprentice, but the few that I have support my theory.  When the sixty-something, pale-as-a-ghost Busey pitches himself as a viable spokesman for tanning lotion to the executives from Australian Gold, he is neither embarrassed nor does he see anything wrong with the idea, not to mention that when he’s confronted later, he flat-out denies ever doing it, even though the scene is caught on camera.  This unadulterated delusion leaves the other contestants slack-jawed.  As for evidence of Trump’s NPD, there is no room even in this loquacious blog to list his crimes of grandiosity; it’s on dozens of grotesque, cheap buildings around New York, blared across reality TV.

Birds of a feather. It wasn’t just because Busey kept the Celebrity Apprentice ratings up that he wasn’t eliminated early, it’s because Trump identifies with him and felt compassion.

Trump has always struck me as one of those loud, tacky aspects of my native city which makes me grimace with the same face I make when I listen to death/thrash metal “music.”  He’s so Queens money, so gold-plated gauche.  His tasteless approach to real estate development has completely ruined the old Plaza Hotel, one of the true vieilles grandes dames of New York buildings, probably his greatest crime, in my book.  There is a version of Trump’s species of vulgar roaming the French Riviera around Monaco in particular: that blinged, blond, boobed, leathery middle-aged creature you want to weigh down with an anchor designed by Bulgari and push off the yacht.

Personally, my current major delusion is I find myself identifying with The Most Interesting Man in the World from the Dos Equis ads.  My TMIMITW symptoms have grown markedly more acute since starting this pre-memoir blog, especially when I have to delete paragraphs because I think the reminiscences might be a little too interesting to be believable.

Speaking of ads that are paeans to extreme vanity, I have to look away every time I see one of those Kim Kardashian Midori posters around town.  It’s like they didn’t even shoot the real Kim or the posers behind her, they commissioned Madame Tussaud’s for wax effigies.  I get that she is contorted in that goofy way because her body makes an S for “Stand Out,” but how wacky and desperate is that campaign in general?  So Japanese:  they are really bonkers sometimes.  Forget tanning lotion, I’ll bet Gary Busey could pitch himself successfully for the next series, with him dressed as the Green Lantern, kneeling and doing the wave.

When the stylist unstrapped Kim from this elastic dress, she rocketed out of the room like a stone from a slingshot.

James Killough

Comments: 10

  • James Tuttle May 5, 201111:37 pm

    Really, Killough? “Celebrity Apprentice” and Kim Kardashian in the same article? I think you might be dangerously close to stepping on my reality television toes.
    But you did include the Pre-Raphaelites, so good job! I even forgot about them in yesterday’s article and I was even writing about England.
    Finally, I’m glad I don’t actually have NPD, as originally suspected, because it looks like it makes for a really terrible hair day.
    xxJ

  • oldancestor May 6, 20116:02 am

    Shit! I had a nice reply going and then my internet did something weird, erasing it all.

    Oh well, it wasn’t to be. In short, Trump is an asshole, Kim K is nice to look at but has no talent, gheys are more honest than straights in their online dating efforts, the “lighting” in that painting is bad. Sprinkle in some jokes and some obscure pop culture references.

    • James Killough May 6, 20117:50 am

      Gheys aren’t any more honest than straights about dating, I’m just less inhibited than most, and more honest in general. It amuses me that honesty shocks people so much. It’s such a basic thing, something that all of us have at our disposal, like auto-eroticism. And it does feel good to let it all hang out there.

      • oldancestor May 6, 20119:14 am

        True that, my friend.

        Oh, there was a bit about me and Brosnan being the last two men on Earth with our chest hair intact. Discounting those fat guys on the beach with the gorilla covering. They don’t count.

        All right, about the painting… I understand that some artists of the time sought to create idealized landscapes, but come on, that looks like a stage set.

      • John Wood May 18, 20111:48 pm

        A sample of said honesty:

        “______, you smell like depression.”

        • Bryan Edmondson May 9, 20129:35 am

          That line is really funny 🙂

          That is as good as Killough’s “…the walls of my own private Jericho were crumbling around me,”

          • Pure Film Creative May 9, 201211:16 am

            Thanks, Bryan. Dunno what you’re doing lurking around the archives. Are you naked?

      • James Killough May 18, 20116:52 pm

        True, that’s a favorite phrase of mine, but I can’t have used it on you because you smell like a gorilla, not depression.

  • Hanson Anderson May 16, 201111:19 am

    James, Dude-you are chiseled! Stay off Steroids though, or else, next thing you know, you will be in the dreaded “Big Dick Book.”
    Ughh!! Then we will all have to grimace and gawk at it, when Eric incontinently ejaculates out another one of his (repressed homo-erotic) lust-drenched word flows, with all of it’s filthy photos from the BD Book mixed in it. Can we vote on this? 🙂

    Seriously though, I read your profile–KUDOS. That is very impressive. I have done some photography myself. However it was all Art B&W Photography. I lugged around a 8×10 view camera, black velvet, and then spent a fortune in dark room supplies, choking on stop solution fumes. I think I made enough money to cover gas, well, 3/4 of a tank anyway.

    Sorry for the non-sequiturs, but one more thing. You finished a novel I read? Is it out for sale? I’d like to read it.

    Great article. You, Tuttle, and Baker are really helping me a lot with my writing. I am a neophyte, and I only started about 8 months ago. So you guys let me know how far I have to go. I love the blog. Keep your shirt on James, not everyone has that waistline. Go bragging on You Tube or some wild writers blog, Would you? Freak!
    🙂
    Hanson Anderson
    p.s. How many publishers does it take to screw in a light bulb? It almost always takes three.
    It takes only one to screw it in, but it usually takes two to hold down the author.

    • James Killough May 16, 201112:18 pm

      I usually do keep my shirt on. I thought I would take it off in fairness to others we were objectifying and exploiting, plus the whole narcissism thing, the shock value of putting pictures from my Manhunt profile.

      We all have a lot of shit to write out of us, like washing rice until the water is clear. Just keep doing it, it happens eventually. The novel needs a massive rewrite, so I am getting to that this summer. Novels are not my primary form of communication. Writing is rewriting. It will get there. In the meantime, there is a fiction piece evolving called “Render the Savage,” up on Diane Pernet’s blog, links are on the upper left of this blog. Feedback on that is appreciated.

      Thanks for reading and for your encouraging comments.

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